“The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd.

The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has even been before”

 – Albert Einstein

via Diana Rikasari

Kai and His Girlfriend, Ellen

Such an adorable 4 years old boy.

Surat Kasih Dari Bapa

Anak-Ku……

Engkau mungkin tidak mengenal Aku, tetapi Aku mengenal segala sesuatu tentang dirimu – Mazmur 139:1

Aku tahu kalau engkau duduk atau berdiri – Mazmur 139:2

Aku mengerti segala jalanmu – Mazmur 139:3

Setiap helai rambut kepalamu, terhitung semuanya – Matius 10:29-31

Karena engkau diciptakan dalam gambar dan rupa-Ku – Kejadian 1:26-27

Di dalam-Ku engkau hidup, engkau bergerak dan engkau ada – Kisah Para Rasul 17:28

Sebab engkau ini adalah keturunan-Ku – Kisah Para Rasul 17:28

Aku mengenal engkau sejak sebelum engkau ada dalam kandungan – Yeremia 1:4-5

Aku memilih engkau dari semula sebelum Aku menciptakan segalanya – Efesus 1:4-5

Engkau ada bukan karena suatu kesalahan, karena hari-harimu ada tertulis dalam kitab-Ku -. Mazmur 139:15-16

Aku telah menentukan waktu yang tepat untuk kelahiran dan di mana engkau akan hidup – Kisah Para Rasul 17:26

Kejadianmu dahsyat dan ajaib – Mazmur 139:14

Karena Aku menenun engkau dalam kandungan ibumu – Mazmur 139:13

Dan mengeluarkan engkau pada hari engkau dilahirkan – Mazmur 71:6

Seringkali Aku tidak dipahami oleh mereka yang tidak mengenal Aku – Yohanes 8:41-44

Aku tidak berada di tempat jauh dan murka, tetapi Aku adalah kasih yang sempurna -

1 Yohanes 4:16

Dan adalah kerinduan-Ku untuk mengaruniakan kasih-Ku untukmu – 1 Yohanes 3:1

Semua itu karena engkau adalah anak-Ku dan Aku adalah Bapamu -. 1 Yohanes 3:1

Aku memberikan lebih dari yang dapat diberikan bapamu yang di dunia – Matius 7:11

Karena Akulah Bapamu di surga yang adalah sempurna – Matius 5:48

Setiap pemberian yang baik dan setiap anugerah yang sempurna engkau terima dari tangan-Ku – Yakobus 1:17

Karena Akulah pemeliharaanmu dan Aku membri semua yang engkau perlukan - Matius 6:31-33

Rancangan-Ku yang diberikan kepadamu adalah hari depan yang penuh harapan – Yeremia 29:11

Karena Aku mengasihi engkau dengan kasih yang kekal – Yeremia 31:3

Pikiran-Ku terhadap engkau tidak terhitung seperti pasir di tepi pantai – Mazmur 139:17-18

Dan Aku bergirang karena engkau dengan sukacita dan sorak-sorai – Zefanya 3:-17

Aku tidak perrnah berhenti berbuat baik kepadamu – Yeremia 32:40

Karena engkaulah harta kesayangan-Ku – Keluaran 19:5

Aku merindukan untuk mengokohkan engkau dengan segenap hati-Ku dan jiwa-Ku – Yeremia 32:41

Aku akan menunjukkan kepadamu hal-hal yang besar dan ajaib – Yeremia 33:3

Jika engkau mencari Aku dengan segenap hatimu, engkau akan menemukan Aku – Ulangan 4:29

Bergembiralah karena Aku, maka Aku akan memberikan kepadamu apa yang diinginkan hatimu – Matius 37:4

Karena Akulah yang mengerjakan di dalammu kemauan itu – Filipi 2:13

Aku dapat melakukan jauh lebih banyak daripada yang engkau plkirkan – Efesus 3:20

Karena Akulah yang meng-anugrahkan penghiburan abadi kepadamu -

2 Tesalonika 2:16-17

Akulah juga Bapa yang menghiburmu dalam segala penderitaanmu – 2 Korintus 1:3-4

Ketika engkau patah hati, Aku berada dekat kepadamu – Mazmur 34:19

Seperti seorang gembala menggembalakan dombanya. Aku membawa engkau dekat ke hati-Ku – Yesaya 40:11

Suatu hari Aku akan menghapus semua air mata dari matamu – Wahyu 21:3-4

Dan Aku akan mengangkat semua kesusahan yang engkau derita di atas bumi – Wahyu 21:3-4

Akulah Bapamu, dan Aku mengasihi engkau seperti Aku mengasihi putra-Ku Yesus – Yohanes 17:23

Karena di dalam Yesus, kasih-Ku kepadamu dinyatakan – Yohanes 17:26

Dialah gambar wujud dari keberadaan-Ku – Ibrani 1:3

Ia datang untuk menyatakan bahwa Aku di pihakmu, dan bukan untuk melawamu – Roma 8:31

Dan untuk memberitahumu bahwa Aku tidak memperhitungkan pelanggaranmu - 2 Korintus 5:18-19

Yesus mati supaya engkau dan Aku dapat diperdamaikan – 2 Korintus 5:18-19

Kematian-Nya adalah pernyataan terbesar dari kasih-Ku untukmu – 1Yohanes 4:10

Aku menyerahkan semua yang Aku sayangi supaya Aku mendapat kasihmu -

Roma 8:31-32

Jika engkau menerima anugrah Anak-Ku Yesus, engkau juga menerima Aku -

1 Yohanes 2:23

Dan tidak lagi ada yang akan memisahkan engkau dari kasih-Ku – Roma 8:38-39

Kembalilah dan Aku akan mengadakan pesta terbesar yang pernah ada di surga – Lukas 15:7

Selamanya Aku adalah Bapa. dan selamanya Aku tetaplah Bapa – Efesus 3:14-15

PertanyaanKu adalah – Maukah engkau menjadi Anak-Ku? – Yohanes 1:12-13

Aku menanti-nanti untukmu – Lukas 15:11-32

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Girls.

"It’s a new era in fashion - there are no rules. It’s all about the individual and personal style, wearing high-end, low-end, classic labels, and up-and-coming designers all together."
— Alexander McQueen

Hahaha! Sorry.

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The Five Stages of Grief

Yesterday in Catholic class I got an interesting subject that my lecturer gave us. It's about The Five Stages of Grief concluded by a psychologist named Elisabeth Kubler-Rose.

At this last class meeting he asked us, "What is the last word you will say before you die?"

In fact, I always thinking about what's the last words I will say in my last seconds of life, and all I was thinking is to apologize to God and say the words that Jesus said in the cross.

It's written in Luke 23:46 Jesus called out with a loud voice, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit.” When he had said this, he breathed his last.

But then I think again and not sure whether if I will do it or not.

Haha life is such a mystery.

Yesterday, I also got the answer what I always ask to myself but always forget to find it out. I had listened at someone story said there's a man which he had ordered his own chest and grave weeks before he died. It was like he had been ready before his last breath came. And He died peacefully after he drank his morning coffee. I wondered how all those things could happen.

And then I wonder how my last seconds of life's going to happen.

Oh, and here's the 5 stages of Grief that I heard yesterday. I repost this from here.

Mind blowing started~

The following stages are for the theme of death and not grief, which is an entirely different subject matter.

1.    Denial — "I feel fine."; "This can't be happening, not to me."
Denial is usually only a temporary defense for the individual. This feeling is generally replaced with heightened awareness of possessions and individuals that will be left behind after death. Denial can be conscious or unconscious refusal to accept facts, information, or the reality of the situation. Denial is a defense mechanism and some people can become locked in this stage.

2.    Anger — "Why me? It's not fair!"; "How can this happen to me?"; '"Who is to blame?"
Once in the second stage, the individual recognizes that denial cannot continue. Because of anger, the person is very difficult to care for due to misplaced feelings of rage and envy. Anger can manifest itself in different ways. People can be angry with themselves, or with others, and especially those who are close to them. It is important to remain detached and nonjudgmental when dealing with a person experiencing anger from grief.

3.    Bargaining — "I'll do anything for a few more years."; "I will give my life savings if..."
The third stage involves the hope that the individual can somehow postpone or delay death. Usually, the negotiation for an extended life is made with a higher power in exchange for a reformed lifestyle. Psychologically, the individual is saying, "I understand I will die, but if I could just do something to buy more time..." People facing less serious trauma can bargain or seek to negotiate a compromise. For example "Can we still be friends?.." when facing a break-up. Bargaining rarely provides a sustainable solution, especially if it's a matter of life or death. Not much noted, but common, bargaining can also include guilt, including survivors guilt.

4.    Depression — "I'm so sad, why bother with anything?"; "I'm going to die soon so what's the point?"; "I miss my loved one, why go on?"
During the fourth stage, the dying person begins to understand the certainty of death. Because of this, the individual may become silent, refuse visitors and spend much of the time crying and grieving. This process allows the dying person to disconnect from things of love and affection. It is not recommended to attempt to cheer up an individual who is in this stage. It is an important time for grieving that must be processed. Depression could be referred to as the dress rehearsal for the 'aftermath'. It is a kind of acceptance with emotional attachment. It's natural to feel sadness, regret, fear, and uncertainty when going through this stage. Feeling those emotions shows that the person has begun to accept the situation.

5.    Acceptance — "It's going to be okay."; "I can't fight it, I may as well prepare for it."
In this last stage, individuals begin to come to terms with their mortality, or that of a loved one, or other tragic event. This stage varies according to the person's situation. People dying can enter this stage a long time before the people they leave behind, who must pass through their own individual stages of dealing with the grief.

Kübler-Ross originally applied these stages to people suffering from terminal illness. She later expanded this theoretical model to apply to any form of catastrophic personal loss (job, income, freedom). Such losses may also include significant life events such as the death of a loved one, major rejection, end of a relationship or divorce, drug addiction, incarceration, the onset of adisease or chronic illness, an infertility diagnosis, as well as many tragedies and disasters.

As stated before, the Kübler-Ross Model can be used for multiple situations where people are experiencing a significant loss. The subsections below explain how the model is applied differently in a few specific situations. These are just some of the many examples that Kübler-Ross wanted her model to be used for.

Interesting, right? I wish I could pass the fifth stage later. Amen.

When I like something, I like it.

And when I hate something, I mean it too.

I don't care about people perspective as long as it doesn't give a shit to anybody.

If you live your life depends on everybody's point of view, how could you be you?

I mean...stand yourself out! Every single step in your life is yours to decide.

You don't need to be stress just because they're looking at you all day long because you're wearing or doing something they don't, or even because you don't have something they have.

Being different is such a pleasure feeling you know?

Always put your smile and confidence always as your main booster.

So, wear yourself back on!

Forever Favorite Quote

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Malam Minggu Miko - Malam Terakhir Miko

Selalu dan pasti nonton Malam Minggu Miiko, mau di Youtube apa di KompasTv, dari episode pertama sampai yang ini, yang terakhir.

Tiap episode tuh ya selalu berhasil bikin ketawa ngakak bareng keluarga.

Salut banget.

Daaaaaan, kemaren pas nonton, Malam Terakhir Miko tuh ya rasanya ga rela banget mesti udahan.

Sedih banget, dan ceritanya paling absurd kayanya ya.

Akhirnya......Selamat Mas Miko akhirnya dapet cewek, Mas Rian semoga cepet dapet cewek, dan Mas Anca, cepet nikah sama Maimunah dan selamat mengabdi seumur hidup dalam hidup Mas Miko dan Mas Rian, ya! :')

Semoga banyak karya anak bangsa lain yang se-OK dan bahkan lebih oke dari acara ini kedepannya.
Next project, please, Mas Radiiiit~


"Malam minggu gue gagal lagi. Tapi jujur, selama malam minggu-malam minggu ini gue belajar banyak. Gue belajar bahwa terkadang selain harus mendengarkan perkataan orang lain, kita juga harus tau apa yang sebenarnya kita butuh. Dan terkadang kita tidak sehebat yang kita pikir, dan itu gak papa. Gue juga belajar, kita tidak harus tau orang lain butuh kita atau tidak, tapi yang penting, kita ada untuk mereka. Dan selama malam minggu-malam minggu ini, gue belajar bahwa gue gak boleh berhenti berharap. Gue yakin suatu saat nanti pasti ada orang yang terbaik buat gue."
- Miko

Coquettish Thief.

SUSPECTED

Name : Rizka Andenty

Age : 19

Occupation : Secretary

Name : Sheila Manik

Age : 19

Occupation : Businesswoman

CRIMINAL EVIDENCE:

Thank's to:

Icha as my partner in crime & my photographer

Mindo as my photographer

Fun. - Carry On - Official Acoustic Music Video - Jake Coco - on iTunes

My favorite song since forever till forever covered perfectly.
You're awesome Jake Coco!

"If you're lost and alone or you're sinking like a stone, carry on! May your past be the sound of your feet upon the ground, carry on! Carry on, carry on!"

Harlem Shake v3 (office edition)

Kudu banget ya...........................

HAHA let's do Harlem Shake!!!

John, the 3-Year-Old Sprinkles Trickster

Can't stop laughing 'till the end!

And, oh, I believe John didn't eat the sprinkles!

LOL 

♡VALENTINES DAY♡What To Wear On A Date With Yourself!

Happy Valentine's day everyone!

Bow chicka wow woww~♥♥♥♥